Yuri Talk: Why Darling in the Franxx’s Ikuno is Not a Tragic Gay, but a Hero of Humanity (By OtakuGamerGirlT)

Note From OG: I would like to thank my good friend OtakuGamerGirlT (aka The Doc) for taking the time to talk about this interesting character in the history of Yuridom. As the warning states this is a spoiler-filled discussion.

Check out The Doc’s Darling in the FranXX review HERE.

One VERY IMPORTANT THING I would like for everyone who wants to share their thoughts to bare in mind before doing so…be it positive or negative on the character/show, keep it civil and respectful. No criticisms of others who drop by or our esteemed guest author.

With that done, take it away Doc!


*This post will contain spoilers of some key events, so be warned!*

Darling in the Franxx is arguably the most discussed anime of 2018 and so like any highly popular or controversial topic, it has its share of critics and opinions. For as much as it did right, it had a lot of flaws, but whether it was able to overcome those flaws is a discussion for another post. This post will be discussing Ikuno of Darling the Franxx, and how she became a hero of humanity.

But before we actually get to this, allow me to give you the background. Darling in the Franxx focuses on a team of children who are assigned the duty of fighting against a dangerous enemy, in mechanized weapons know as Franxx. These Franxx require fully functioning male and female sexual organs to be piloted, which therefore requires each unit to have a boy and girl. The power of the mecha is directly proportional to the compatibility of the pair and the feelings between them, or love. So, this necessity makes the likelihood of having same sex pairs almost impossible and therefore seems to push the heteronormative agenda. On this front, I can’t deny it may be based in some truth, and I’ll admit I’d have liked to see a better exploration of same-sex piloting and if it would have been possible if the pair had romantic feelings between them.

With this as the main setting of the plot, it makes it really easy to open the door to other claims, such as the studio being homophobic and partaking in the Bury your Gays Stereotype because Ikuno, a character who ends up with a shorter lifespan than the others, happens to be gay. In this post, I will attempt to argue against these claims, by showing how the series actually honors Ikuno, by giving her a legacy that cannot be forgotten and how she became a hero of humanity.

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The creators of DarliFra sent a shockwave through the fandom when they confirmed what they’d been hinting at since the start, that Ikuno, the lonesome bookworm of squad 13, was a lesbian and was in love with her team captain, Ichigo, who she confessed to. Many were pleased, especially in the gay community, and began to hope for the possibility that the Ikuno x Ichigo ship would sail. Of course, there were also skeptics, feeling it was just bait and that due to the somewhat heteronormative nature of the show, it’d never happen. As it turns out, both sides were half right. It soon became pretty clear that Ikuno and Ichigo wouldn’t be a thing and that she instead chose her male partner Goro. However, her identity was never erased and she received complete support from Ichigo and her friends, denying the idea that it was just bait. Ikuno was a confirmed lesbian from beginning to end, which is something we don’t see often in mainstream anime. Furthermore, she doesn’t end up alone in the end either.


Before we get to that though, I’d like to discuss the confession briefly. During the scene pictured above, Ikuno had reached her wits end and could no longer contain her feelings for Ichigo. She confessed to her and was open and honest about how she felt about Ichigo as well as in general. How she hated the unfair piloting system of the Franxx and how she felt like a freak and a selfish pain to everyone because she was so different. This scene could’ve gone two different ways from this point. Ichigo could have been dismissive and disgusted and made Ikuno feel that she really was a freak or they could’ve had Ichigo not respond much at all, leaving Ikuno feeling rejected and confused.

However, it went in neither direction we might have expected. Instead what we saw, was a beautiful and respectful moment of acceptance, for a confused gay who was brave enough to come out to someone they trusted. Ichigo did not belittle Ikuno’s feelings or harshly reject her, but rather she told her it was ok to be herself. It was ok to be a pain because everyone could be sometimes. She said that she was valid, she was the same as anyone, she was human. She accepted her and who she was wholeheartedly, even if she couldn’t return her feelings. This is why although she may have “lost” in the conquest of Ichigo’s heart, she won in terms of being accepted and having a safe space. This was a win for the lgbtq community in anime, in my honest opinion. It was a wonderful moment.


And then came this moment, where Ikuno chose to risk her life in order to help Hiro and Zero Two break through a blocked path, which would lead them to the Franxx that would save the world. It would require a lot of energy and being that the females take the brunt of the damage, it was naturally going to take the biggest toll on her. However, she believed in her friends and believed in the hope of a better future and so she did what she felt she needed to do and broke through. In the process, her hair turned grey, which we had learned meant her aging had been accelerated and that her lifespan was greatly shortened. It’s a fate all parasites would have to face one day, but this action led her to face it much sooner than the others. However, she was successful and this single act of selflessness, very well may have been the turning point as to if humanity would have a chance. In this moment, she took her first steps to becoming a real hero.


Leaving Hiro Two to fight for their futures, all that was left for the others to do was try and make the earth a viable place to live. Squad 13 and all the other parasite groups, including those previously thought to be lost, came together to rebuild the earth and learn how to create civilization like the days of the past. Ikuno may have a been a bit greyer and bit weaker, but this wasn’t stopping her from helping them out. She did her best and had the support of Ichigo and all her friends every step of the way. This gave her the chance to focus on what she wanted and encouraged her to do what she could with the time she had left. What followed was nothing short of extraordinary.


Using the preserved records of the past, Ikuno studied science and medicine and became a self-taught doctor and scientist. She then went on to discover a cure for the accelerated aging that the parasites suffered from. She created a new energy source to power their civilization, so that the dangerous alien energy could be discarded. She gave the others the knowledge on how to best cultivate food and create resources to sustain their booming population. As a doctor, she treated everyone’s sickness and improved their quality of life ten-fold. She literally paved the way for earth to become a self-sustaining planet and ensured that humanity would rise again and flourish for centuries and beyond. She saved humanity and became its hero, all while fighting her own battle to survive and live as long as she could. If that’s not legendary, I don’t know what is.


Most importantly of all, she didn’t have to do it all alone. Yes, she had the love and support of her friends, but I’d imagine that it would get pretty lonley spending your days in a lab trying to save the world while everyone else went on to live their lives with their loved ones and children. Perhaps if she had never found love and died alone in her bed, she could be called a tragic hero, but this was not the case, as she did find love and a life partner both professionally and personally.


This is Naomi, if you don’t recall who she is, she was Hiro’s original partner, but because she and Hiro couldn’t link up (not hard to figure why knowing what we know now 😉 ), she was sent away, presumed to be dead. But as it turns out, she was not dead, and she’d been kept in a deep sleep for a while, until the day came that she was freed. However, she wasn’t without loss, as she did lose an arm during an attack early on. That is to say, she had her own disability to live with. So, when she came back to squad 13, and they all began to live their lives together with their chosen partners, it should come at no surprise that she and Ikuno would probably become closer, as they were the only two who didn’t have a set partner and as they obviously had much in common.


They both couldn’t conform to the Franxx system properly, they both had a disability and they both, we can assume, could only find love with other women. It’s only natural that they would connect, especially since they would’ve likely spent more time together since all their other teammates had their own families to attend to. They were both sort of the odd girls out and were facing solitary lives, so if they could lean on each other in times of loneliness or when they were struggling with their disabilities, why wouldn’t they get closer? Perhaps Naomi could see how hard Ikuno was working for everyone and felt that while she was looking out for everyone else, maybe she needed someone to look out for her. That, I imagine, was why she likely became her assistant and spending as much time alone together as I’m sure they did day after day, it’d be more illogical for them not to fall in love. And it was clear they were in love, with Ikuno even going as far as to have Goro track down that old mirror on one of his explorations so that she may give it back to Naomi. That seems an awful lot like a girl trying to do something nice for her crush.


There are some naysayers against them being official, but to them I say they must be blind, because there is no way these moments can be seen in any other way. Ikuno was a lesbian who feared she’d be alone forever, but then she found another lesbian and they fell in love. She had found a healthy way to move on from Ichigo and live out her remaining days with someone who loved her just as deeply in return. Someone who’d stay by her side and could understand what she was feeling in every sense. She worked her hardest for the sake of her friends, the future and humanity. Finding love was a fitting reward for her selfless act and a gift she probably never expected to have. Whether you agree with it or not, is it wrong to allow her that simple happiness?


There’s been so much debate on whether Ikuno is another victim of the Bury Your Gays trend and to that I say a hard NO. See OG’s rules on Bury your Gays here. Ikuno was not sacrificed for no reason other than to erase her existence or in a way that made no sense to the plot. In fact, she wasn’t even sacrificed at all, as she didn’t die. By the finale, her final moments were what we see above. Maybe she died right after, or maybe she dies in another ten years. We have no way of knowing, but that doesn’t really matter. Ikuno made the choice to risk her life to preserve the future of humanity. She believed in her friends. She believed in the future. She believed in herself. She did what she could do while she could do it. She fought a battle all her own and won, even if ending up maimed along the way. She succeeded in what she set out to do and then was allowed to spend her remaining days with someone who loved her unconditionally. That is not a tragic end, that is a happy one. She is not a tragic gay, who drew the short end of the stick because the creators wanted her to suffer. She is a hero and the creators honored her as such, by allowing her to leave a legacy that will never be erased. Even thousands of years into the future, the humans of their world will know of Ikuno, the mother of modern science and medicine. They will know that they are alive thanks to the efforts of a strong, powerful woman, who against all odds, and with a single snap decision, became a hero of humanity and was also gay.

Note from OG: Thank you again miss. Check out more from The Doc on her Twitter and Blog.

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44 Responses to Yuri Talk: Why Darling in the Franxx’s Ikuno is Not a Tragic Gay, but a Hero of Humanity (By OtakuGamerGirlT)

  1. Gurrenprime says:

    Imo the biggest tragedy was her lack of screen time. I would’ve loved if they spent more than one episode building up her and Naomi’s relationship, or if her disinterest in guys caused more problems with piloting her Franxx. But nope, gotta dedicate that time to cringe-worthy love triangle bs.

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    • OtakuGamerGirlT says:

      I agree. One of the greatest injustices was that they didnt explore the possibilities and limitations of piloting the Franxx beyond what was already believed to be true. And yes, Naomi and Ikuno could have used more development. I’d have been happy to have it over the excess drama of the triangles.

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  2. Giack31 says:

    I 100% agree with you.
    Even though I knew that Ikuno had no chance with Ichigo I still liked that she confessed because it let her her take a weight off of her chest and helped her move on (same with what happened with Ichigo’s confession to Hiro). It also confirmed something that was teased SO much. As you wrote the fact that Ichigo accepted her feelings even though she couldn’t reciprocate them helped a lot.

    I really wanted Ikuno to find another partner and I was very happy when they showed Naomi helping her with her studies. Was this planned from the beginning or was it shoehorned at the end just to give her an happy ending? I don’t really mind either way since I like the result.

    So just because she didn’t get into a relationship that in the end wouldn’t have worked because of the lack of reciprocity from Ichigo doesn’t make her ending a tragic one. I think this is a better ending for her, a happy ending and one she totally deserves.

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  3. You’ve convinced to me watch the show. Congratulations.

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  4. You actually made me notice Naomi had lost her other arm…for some reason, I had entirely missed that while watching.

    That said, this was really well written, and I agree completely! It’s rare to see stories like hers’ told in anime, with definite confessions, but ones that don’t necessarily go in that specific romantic direction, but still validate the confession and the feelings behind it instead of dismissing it for comedy or whatever, and for that reason alone I like most of what they did with her.

    Ikuno was wonderful throughout the show, though she perhaps could have gotten a bit more screentime at times.

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  5. Shinryu says:

    Ikuno was easily the best part of the show, and I loved how it treated her in the limited time she had on screen (except forcing her to partner with someone just to pilot, but it’s not like she was the only one forced to pilot against their desires). Overall I found the show to be an at times entertaining mess that I wouldn’t recommend to anyone. but if there was a cut of just Ikuno’s parts I’d be happy to watch it again.

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  6. OtakuGamerGirlT says:

    Tbh, I didnt notice her arm at first either lol. Thank you, I’m glad you recieved it well. Ikuno was definitely my favorite for these reasons and more, so if only we could’ve had more development of her and Naomi, I’d have loved the show that much more.

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  7. Seems like a have your cake and eat it too, because the main guy and 02 do not end up together either.

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  8. user00 says:

    I just want a scene where Ikuno invented a way to make science babies for her and Naomi 😄

    Liked by 4 people

  9. I never watched nor had interest in this anime other than solo/yuri fanarts of Zero Two, Ichigo, and Ikuno. I was kind of hoping that it would end in Zero/Ichigo or Ikuno/Ichigo. At least Ikuno stayed true to herself and got herself a girlfriend in the end.

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    • OtakuGamerGirlT says:

      Ichigo x Ikuno would have been nice, but Ikuno finding love in the end is definitely the bright side of it all.

      Liked by 1 person

      • OG-Man says:

        Better to have won the war for love than to have lost a battle. A valuable lesson that just because you didn’t win the heart of your first love doesn’t mean you can never find love again.

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  10. Prinz Of Pudding says:

    “…a strong, powerful woman, who against all odds, and with a single snap decision, became a hero of humanity and was also gay.”

    “and was also gay”
    “and was also gay”
    “and was also gay”
    “and was also gay”
    “and was also gay”

    People talk about how Moby Dick starts with “Call me Ismael.” yet they forget that this review ends with “and was also gay”. This is a whole new level of literature.

    This is not simply a review.
    This is…
    Praise the Yuri!

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  11. Ioni says:

    thanks, I’m not the only person to see a Ikuno x Naomi ship in the last episode.

    Liked by 1 person

  12. Ren says:

    I have not watched this show nor do I have plans to do so in the future, but I would just like to point out that being a “tragic gay” and being a “hero of humanity” are not mutually exclusive. Critics of the “bury the gays” trope do not necessarily believe that the tragic ends faced by many gay characters serve no purpose in the storyline, or that the characters’ sacrifices are not heroic. The problem with the trope is: why is it always the gays who are sacrificed, thus causing a much higher death rate to gay characters than straight characters? Many of us just want to see more gay characters have a happy end.

    That said, I can understand that some people may still enjoy shows with tragic gay characters, such as the one you have described. Such shows may have other merits that make them enjoyable, and I think you have done a good job in pointing those out. I won’t comment on whether I think the studio has homophobic intentions in picking this setting and subscribing to the “bury the gays” trope, but personally speaking, these particular plot elements are what I do not want to see in the media I consume. Thank you for pointing them out; your review was helpful for us to make the decision of whether to watch the show. We all have shows we like or dislike, so I think your opinion is completely valid despite our disagreements.

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    • OtakuGamerGirlT says:

      I can definitely see your point as well. It is, in general, an unfortunate trend that needs to be corrected. I appreciate your willingness to see my point also, even if we disagree. Many people have a hard time with that. So, thank you.


  13. Bartyblogs2018 says:

    I was admittedly very concerned when I heard about how the show ended, and I worried that what happened with Ikuno might’ve killed off my interest in the show entirely.

    But, this write-up made me feel a little more positively. I don’t know if I’ll care for this show in the end, but I will definitely give it a chance now that its over. However, I’m glad to know that Ikuno’s character arc and progression with her sexuality turned out to be a point in the show’s favor, and am hoping that I’ll feel the same when I watch it unfold myself.

    Thank you for this. It’s so nice to see a level-headed commentary on this series, because you’ll never get any of that from AniTwitter from either the fans nor the detractors.

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  14. RYAIN says:

    Nice article. 😊
    But she was really lack of screen time to know about Ikuno and Naomi,.

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  15. K says:

    Count me among those who didn’t notice that Naomi had only one arm. Anyway, I honestly didn’t see much in the Naomi/Ikuno relationship but when you say it like that, it makes sense.

    Now Ikuno, I liked her and it went up ten-fold after her confession to Ichigo. I liked how her spirits were high, not letting something like rapid aging keep her down. Indeed, her efforts will most definitely never be forgotten.

    Another thing that I liked was how her relationship with Futoshi progressed in particular. She didn’t really care that he was her partner and he was Kokoro-minded. By the end though, it’s very apparent that they were very close friends.

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  16. EvilZoot says:

    Thank you for this. Maybe it’s only obvious to the lesbians? Seemed obvious enough to me (re. Her and naomi) 😉

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    • OtakuGamerGirlT says:

      It was no problem. I was happy to write this so people could understand. Honestly, I think most people could see it, gay or straight. The ones who didn’t, probably didn’t want to see it or perhaps just refused to. Thanks for taking the time to read this though, it means a lot.

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  19. YayaSamuko says:

    it has convinced me to watch the show, just for Ikuno’s sake. Thanks!

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  21. piano_cello_conducting says:

    I couldn’t really get invested in Ikuno x Ichigo as there wasn’t much development on Ichigo’s part. But I’m happy that Ikuno got her happy yuri ending though it almost seemed like the writers didn’t know what to do with Naomi’s role so decided to use her to give Ikuno a happy yuri ending.


  22. Regina Branche says:

    This made me feel a lot better.
    I like literally scream IKUNO IS BEST GIRL at anyone who will listen, followed by a rant of how unfair her screen time and lack of merchandise is considering how key she is to the plot.
    Reading that someone else also sees it attend confirming she will be in cemented in history makes me feel better that she still had to die in the end. (Still really sad about it).
    I think if they had given Naomi more screen time i wouldn’t have had an immediate negative reaction to her send Ikuno being together in the end. Almost felt like an afterthought or them just throwing her a bone. Reading it from your perspective puts me at ease cuz it’s true. Spend enough time around someone(especially if they’re as amazing as Ikuno) you’re bound to fall in love.

    Thank you OP… can we petition for more Ikuno merch? I have like 2 keychains… it’s so hard to find her

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    • OtakuGamerGirlT says:

      Thank you for your kind words! I’m glad my post could make you feel better. I agree with all your thoughts too. It’s sad that she had to die, no doubt, but at least it meant something. That’s what makes it bearable. She really is best girl though, so I’m glad she got to shine in such an important way. And yea, we need more merch for sure!


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